The Talmud tells us that one who visits the sick removes one sixtieth of that person's illness. Why one sixtieth? It could be that this Talmudic teaching is trying to say something about the both our capabilities and our limitations when it comes to caring for those in less fortunate. We cannot take away someone's illness, difficulties or diminished circumstances. On the other hand, our willingness to show up and help does make a difference. Sometimes it's the simple act of being present that speaks volumes, for with that act we assure our fellow community member that we care about them, and will not abandon them or let them fall.

In our congregation, we are always striving to find new and better ways of answering the call of this teaching, and responding to the overall Jewish imperative to care for those in need. It is not as straightforward as it sounds. Not everyone has the ability or inclination to take time for visiting the sick. Other people feel uncomfortable at the prospect; what if I don't know what to say, they wonder. Or worse, what if I say the wrong thing and make the other person feel even worse?

That's why Judaism's take on how we care for others is less about what we say, and more about the simple yet powerful act of being there. Anyone can fulfill this mitzvah, and TBK's Caring Community is looking for your help to do just that. If you'd like to be part of these efforts, please contact the Clergy Study at 244-7060 ext. 227 for more information. There are many ways to help. And if you or someone in your family are going through a time where you need company or practical assistance, please let temple know that too. In these ways, may we continue to evolve into a caring community in letter and in spirit; in word, and in deed.